mikesbytes,
I am not sure if this question is directed to me, however I will try to answer it as best I can.
Ask yourself. Do you feel compression, or suspension? Levity? Unimagined? It’s not about the neck or the head. It’s about the union of ascending and descending force and negotiating that while you’re circulating breath.
I can’t say it strongly enough, [B]save these advanced headstands for when you are truly a yoga master:[/B] when you have complete control over [B]kundalini[/B], have [B]ha[/B] and [B]tha[/B] completely defined and balanced and understand clearly and fully their union, how they are directed, together with breathing, to mechanically align and suspend the weight of the body (like it’s hanging from a thread). Otherwise you risk permanent damage. You may not find out until you’re 50 or 60, but probably much sooner.
You simply cannot “build up” to this kind of strength and control by stacking up your weight and waiting, praying. Never happen. If you can do an ordinary, armstand-type headstand, be happy. It may take you a lifetime to master, and is that not enough?
Always seek the guidance of a teacher who is accomplished in what they teach, and not just knows the moves. If your teacher or your classmates are encouraging you to attempt such advanced headstands, just say no. There is no point. Tell them Siva said so.
peace & love,
siva