I do yoga just to improve my sexual life

LostOnTheWay,

“He allows God to keep him in whatever state God wishes. If you read ‘Gospel of Sri Ramakrishna’ by Mahedranath, you’ll see that going into nirvikalpa and coming back from it was an everyday thing for Sri Ramakrishna.”

To have experienced nirvikalpa samadhi is not any indication that one has come to an awakening. And that has been one of the greatest misunderstandings, that simply to enter into certain states of samadhi is going to trigger an awakening. Samadhi is needed, but only as a tool, an instrument for direct insight. That is why there have been yogis who have been entering in and out of samadhi for years, but they have remained in a deep sleep. Enlightenment is not a matter of a mechanical entering into altered states of consciousness, it arises as something entirely different.

“In fact bhakti marg produced many enlightened masters”

Although the approah of bhakhti yoga has awakened certain dimensions of existence which very rarely enter into the perception of the average person, I cannot agree that there have been too many bakhti yogis who have come to their enlightenment. Those few who have, have managed to move beyond an object of devotion which is simply a figment of one’s own imagination. For a devotee to be focused on an object of devotion requires a conscious effort of the mind, you have to project something far away onto the other shore. There is another kind of devotion which arises which is not focused on any particular object, it is not something that requires an effort of the mind. You are the Truth, there is no need to project it far away as though it were dimensions apart. If you are it, it is impossible for one to turn it into an object of devotion, neither is there one who is a devotee, but there is only devotion itself. Amongst the bhakhti yogis, they have called it para-bhakhti - it is not a devotion which is focused upon anything in particular. Every breath, every step, every gesture is a direct expression of the inexpressible. Most bhakhtis rarely ever come to know of this kind of devotion, simply because they have remained fixated upon a projection of their own imagination.

“There is an underlying assumption here that God is an idea and that the idea must be get rid of. But what if its not an idea and that God is a real thing/being/whatever”

There is certainly something which can be called “divine”. The word “God” is meaningless in itself, it will mean whatever one wants it to mean. That is the nature of words. One can use the word “God” if one wants, but if one considers it to be some kind of Supreme Being, that Supreme Being is simply a hallucination. It is simply because the mind cannot see anything beyond the lenses of it’s own subjectivity. The idea of “God” is created in that subjectivity, and whatever that idea may be, even if it is the idea of “nothingness”, it is bound to be a limited quality. Truth is not something that can be included in the boundaries of our knowledge.

I will let my Hare Krishna (ISKCON) background through a bit here…

The Hare Krishnas practice Bhakti Yoga.
They believe that the Absolute Brahman is too ‘impersonal’ to try meditating upon…

I agree with that to some extent…how can one meditate/love/worship something that is totally formless?

Of course, I became an Advaitist after that when they insinuated that those who achieved self-realisation of the ‘impersonal Brahman’ were only deluding themselves because Krishna>Everything Else…

Bhakti Yoga has its place. Why do we do Yoga at all? Why do we want/desire Samadhi?
It cannot be for knowledge, because that has definite limitations.
If it’s not for love…for that kind of pure love that nothing on this physical plane can give us…then what?

Yes, I sometimes get stuck in that place where my heart is full of universal love and I weep uncontrollably…it’s very beautiful…
I know I can ‘progress’ from there, but I am not sure how or even what remains after that…

Sometimes people (even me) think too much…

:slight_smile: I have spoken too much now. I should speak less, exercise more, drink more water, sit less in front of computer, sleep early, get up early and meditate more. Bhakti or hatha.

Bhakti path is selfless surrender to the One. Jnana path is an attempt to understand the One to whom we surrender!

[QUOTE=Nobody;43509]Agreed…but we shouldn’t really judge (not saying that you are judging or anything)…

If people are happy being stuck in Savikalpa Samadi, let them be…of course we all know that they can progress on from there but only [B]if they want to.[/B]

Being one with God instead of just ‘being’ is still a very good thing and not many achieve that stage even after 1000 lifetimes…

I really think that this thread has sorta derailed though…

If the OP’s friend only wants to do yoga to be more ‘sexy’…good luck to him…he will get that and his desire will be fulfilled (until such times as the next desire comes along). :roll:

Here’s a corresponding story…(I am full of them today)…

A long time ago, I was very good friends with a yoga teacher…

It was obvious that he was only teaching yoga to supplement his meagre income and that was it…he was in it for the money (he taught 3 classes/week).

He was charging $8 per class, which was fair, but a bit on the ‘steep’ side back in the '90’s…

He started off with about 40 students, but over about 6 months, his students began dropping like flies…

When he was down to about 10 students, he introduced a ‘pay in advance’ concept, charging $100 per month with unlimited participation…(which worked out more expensive)…

I suggested that if he actually decreased the cost to $5 per class and advertised more, he may get more students and it would be better for him…

I even suggested that he should make the first few classes ‘free of charge’…

Of course, I was thinking along the lines of people teaching/doing Yoga for the sake of teaching/doing Yoga without any materialistic gain or motives…I thought my teacher friend would at least be receptive to that…

But no, it was not on…he simply said ‘if I have to pay for petrol and hall rental from my own pocket, forget it’…I offered to pay just to keep the classes going, but he wouldn’t hear about that either…

In the end, the classes failed and he took up driving taxi cabs…

There’s a moral in this for the OP’s friend…somewhere…[/QUOTE]

nicely said!