[QUOTE=Joanna63;54239]You obviously have no children, Scales. Wait until you do, and allow them to question your every decision. They are children. There are other ways to teach your children to question authority when they believe it may be wrong than to turn them into selfish little tyrants. They are not small adults. They are children with undeveloped brains, nervous systems, and also need to be taught to control their emotions so they aren’t totally at the whim of their every mood.
And yes, we need to learn when to shut up and just do it, and when it is important to question.[/QUOTE]
I would always turn it around the truth.
“I say these things for your wellbeing because I love you and want to see you grow up strong and smart.”
and anyway - the scales wouldn’t be blessed with tyrants.
For he wasn’t that way - when a wee babe - the Scales was the most lovely child.