I’ll skip over the pragmatic thoughts I have and move to the energetic ones. First though a note - classically there were no mats.
The difference is the connection with the ground. Typically one’s bed is suspended in the air. And while beds, much like people, can take on any of the three doshas, most of those are vatta. There is very little sense of grounding and so the relationship with the earth is, at very least, altered (or reduced or non-existent).
Obviously standing poses and backbends and any other pose that requires stability would be better served on a solid surface with a traction between surface and student. Additionally, depending on what sort of bed you have and what sort of body there’s a chance the spine would not be neutral in supine poses that warrant it. Some beds are obviously better than others.