I have been reading through these forums for a few days and have been impressed by the quality of advice/suggestions that are given, as well as the genuine niceness that is here. I thought I would put some of my struggles as a beginning yoga practitioner out there and see if anyone can provide guidance.
I’m 45, female, healthy. “Fit” if you mean by that, “can walk briskly for miles” but very, very inflexible. I have dabbled in yoga off and on for years and have always ended up quitting because I was so frustrated by my limitations. I have recently started up with it again and feel that I am in a better place mentally and can accept where I am without becoming discouraged. (I’ve realized that quitting and sulking has not improved my situation a bit so even if I were to stick this out for years and not improve, what would I have lost?)
I have had teachers in the past but right now am working with books and videos. I know, not the best situation. I live in a very small town in a very isolated area and have access to exactly one teacher, who is currently on spring break. I plan to get back to her class when she returns.
Particularly restricting for me are my hips and also my adductors. I have a problem knee (had arthroscopic surgery on it three years ago and still have problems with it) and have been told by several physical therapists that my hips were the likely cause, as they do not at all have normal ROM.
As for my adductors, when I sit in a straddle, my legs can only spread to about 35 degrees and even there, I have a hard time sitting upright. (I use a blanket to help with that.) Sitting upright with my legs barely spread like this is a huge challenge, an extreme stretch. I have not been able to even consider moving forward in this position for decades.
Also, standing positions such as the warrior stances and the triangle position are very difficult. My hips restrict me in the warriors and my adductors in the triangle.
I’m sorry this is so long! One of my main concerns is this: When I move into and out of any straddle positions (standing or seated), the muscles pull hard on my knees. Could this be a factor in my “bad” knee? I am very, very careful when moving in and out of a straddle and yet I have NEVER seen this addressed anywhere and no one seems to know what I’m talking about. Surely I can’t be a total anomaly!
Are there any general tips you would give to a person in my situation, someone abnormally tight in hips and adductors (and hamstrings, too - probably everywhere to be honest) who has limited access to a teacher but who is very motivated to learn? I would appreciate any ideas and encouragement. Thank you so much for reading.