Well i think a proper treatment of the full dimensions of tantra in relation to the wise use of sexual energies is even outside the scope of this practical manual.
It does’nt prescribe life-style options but it does have a nice little chapter titled tantra mainly theory,philosophy,textual origins. How it seeks to embrace all aspects and complications of life .All aspects clearly to me means brahmacharya and then i can’t how celibacy comes into play .I used to get the impression than celibacy was something classical orthodox yoga might have suggested.Celibacy sounds like denial to me which is’nt life-affiriming,And it’s denying the most primeval & one of the most powerful drives of them all;the instinct to procreate,reproduce.I see something fundamentally up with a path that does not promote sexual relations as both an option and powerful transformational tool… It may hold value when learning the ropes of self-discipline ,then a period enforced celibacy might have some value. But thereafter it can possibly open more & new doors, enable you to reach higher states.If celibabcy is enforced then it’s not really tantric.As tantra is about relaxing back into pure awareness and being accepting of all facets and features of llife.If you feel like having sex whther solo or couple then have some but the practice is not identifying with the sensual states or growing attached to them.If you trip up here ,then you bring back some discipline and so on. Continue to practice till you get the hang of it.
Says “tantra is a [I]sadhana shastra[/I],which means practice-oriented scripture, whose purpose is to give each & every spiritual illimination by any means that is suitable and available.It consists of a vast number of different practices to suit all types of people combined with the highest concepts realizeed by tantric sages throughout the ages in states of deep meditation.It is because of thiss combination that we have such high regard for tantra”.
Also Tnatra is universal system"
& “Tantra is mother, yoga is son.” which i quite like.
Avoiding sexual relations to me could be more negating and destructive than engaging with the world…
Finally that booksays tantra is for the modern life or man engaged in worldly affairs etc.In higher states of awarness celibacy to me seems neither here nor there.Although i think absolute control of the sex drive is probably quite difficult and may take a certain amount of sustained training and maturing into.I’ve experienced a transmutation of the sex impulse but that was negaged in practice. I used techniques that are certainly not in this book. You might i’m hazarding a guess findin a taoist or specialised sexual tantra agama or shastra but, I’m not familiar with the depth and richness of the literary corpus.I’ve just been led to experiment partly out of my own inclinations,curiosity and desire to experiment. Funny where that can and often does leads though.
It’s definitely mind-altered states of awarness and expanded levels of consciousness.For a man that often means retaining the seed and engaging in practices that alter the subtle & gross biologies.To engage in left-hand tantra(?) or to enjoy sexual tantra for spiritual purposes you’d possibly might have to join an esoteric group (or know someone who was into that)where both men & women had done this kind of training-mental,physical,energetic and spiritual.It is the union of shiva & shakti.Sexual tantric relations with other practioners is one component though i suspect a pretty powerful one and somehwat advanced if sufficiently mastered.Some men talk of retaining their seed for many months. I’ve only ever done this for certainly not longer for 3 months.I think there’s what i’ve heard the nectar cycle that you can get going to facilitate this but then there may also be re-absorpbtion and so on.Or individual chemistries might play some role. It can be done though if you’re sincere & dedicated enough.Some of the practices produce ojas which is i think like the king of energies.I know i was subsiting off 3hrs sleep and then meditating for another 3 sometimes on waking at 4am which strangely felt like 10 mins.Like boundless energy.And i felt like i had siddhis.What i mean is one felt almost super-human,like a God.