Meeting family, friends, going to parties, making resolutions etc makes this time of the year most taxing, both in mind & spirit. To recover I am drawn more & more to spiritual reading & enhancing my asanas.
This morning I came across the following from my frequent re-reading of the Gita:
?It is better to follow your personal dharma even unto death; to live another?s dharma culminates in fear.?
So, what exactly is dharma?
In Sanskrit [I]dharma[/I] literally means that which is established, firm (often also used in religion). An individual?s dharma is what he or she was born to do, an individual?s personal path through existence. Wouldn?t life be so nice if we came in this world with our individual dharma well defined & tattooed on our forehead? Unfortunate this is not the case ? instead we have to toil & struggle to discover our dharma, most don?t even know they are doing that. From childhood our parents & mentors force some expedient path for us (whether it is right for us or not). This path is often motivated by their own personal experiences or worst still ambitions. Following such a path if it does not resonate with the self causes struggle, a young child (seeking approval & wanting to please) does not know this, unless a rebel the child continues on a path not suitable for her or him. I am very popular with my nieces & nephews since I know their parents & I am willing to question the path they are taking, of course I?m not so popular with their parents.
What I can say is that I carry out many duties during a working week. Some duties are effortless with great results as though providence seems to move to make events & situations possible to facilitate my tasks. And in some case everything is a struggle ? I find I need to put significant effort for meager results.
Do you find this? If so, then examine more closely achievements were everything just moves to allow your duties to fulfill, & do more of these duties & discard that which is a struggle ?these are probably the steps to converge to our dharma.
With this approach I have been able to enhance & discard much in my life ? I feel I am now moving closer to knowing my dharma. I think most people leave this earthly existence unfulfilled with little knowledge of their [I]Raison d’?tre.[/I]
As we take stock of all that has been & reflect on the things to come, focus on your dharma ? the reason why we were born ? let it take centre stage!
Having talked about the positive aspects of dharma, there is one area which concerns me. There exists individuals in this era whose intention is to cause death & destruction, we call them terrorists, but they think it is their dharma. How do you reconcile this? To me those who act in dharma bring joy & happiness not just to their immediate environment but the whole human race. They lift the vibrations of the human race a notch or two. When Mozart composed he was acting in his dharma, when Mahatma Ghandi pursued justice with a message of love he was acting in his dharma, when Michael Jackson performed both in music & dance he was indeed acting in his dharma. The act of terrorists has nothing what so ever to do with religion, but they believe it?s their dharma!
How does one reconcile the Gita expression mentioned earlier in this post with the acts of terrorists?
If any of my fellow yoginis or yogis have thoughts on this controversial area of today?s life please let me know. If this post provokes any thoughts please post them. What is dharma to you? Also what happens when your dharma puts you at odds with the conventions or prejudices of others? Do you conform or smile & trudge along?
Thank you,
`Happy New year to you all & may all your actions coincide with your dharma.
Namaste,
Fin