Namaste Lotus girl,
There is something even beyond interconnection, it is oneness. In oneness there is no two or three, there is no light and dark, no good and bad, no positive and negative. This is the Self. This is who we really are.
I do not disagree with Buddhism that our phenomenal self(the self as it appears to us) is indeed a dependent function, which depends on everything else. It is nothing more than a set of relationships made up of the skandas.
This is identical with the ahamkara(I-maker) which is a construction and a false self.
Buddha was not saying the self does not exist he was saying whatever we think that is the self does not exist. If you reject this pure I-am-ness then you do indeed have nihilism.
If I am really only a function of the world, contingent on everything else than life becomes completely pointless. I am, however, a spiritual being, then life has a purpose.
If you interpret the religion of Buddhism authentically then one cannot escape the conclusion that it does indeed deny the self. It actually says the self is momentary and is created and destroyed every moment. Now as I said does this mean I can go and rape somebody, and when the act is finished, I could just say, “It was not me who did the rape”
You will not be able to defend Buddhism from this charge.
