I attended my first yoga class tonight and am hoping to get some feedback on if my experience was unusual.
I did not spend any time researching different types of yoga, and mostly chose the class based on convenience. My thought was that I could get a basis in any sort of class, see how I liked it, and then re-evaluate.
I attended a beginner’s class and was pleasantly surprised to see that there were only four of us there (I thought I might get more assistance this way). The environment was great and not at all intimidating, and I went into the situation feeling calm and looking forward to giving it a go.
The instructor seemed nice enough at first, but I found that the farther we went in, the less comfortable I was. He consistently commented that I and my neighbor, who had joined me, were doing every pose at a different pace than the other two girls (who had taken classes before, but not with him). He also seemed hesitant to show us how to do the poses, siting that he felt that everyone’s body does each pose in a different way (I can buy that, by the way, but was having trouble doing anything at all without a solid example). So he would sometimes do the pose for us as an example at first, but would never do it alongside us.
He also asked often that we not look at him while we were practicing and to instead either close our eyes or look forward and listen to his instructions. This was very difficult for me, as I am a visual learner. I understand the need for focus on your own body, but was having an extremely difficult time even understanding what my body should be doing. He was also using terms that I was unfamiliar with and the environment in the room was so quiet and meditative that I did not feel comfortable opening up a dialogue to ask for further explanation.
By the middle of the class he seemed exasperated with me and my neighbor and at one point asked “what are you doing?” rather testily. By this point, I don’t think I was getting any physical, and especially not any mental, benefits from the class. By the way, he did know that this was the first time that both I and my neighbor had practiced any type of yoga at all.
I am a little nervous to go to another class after this. I won’t be attending another by this instructor, of course, but I also worry that I could possibly have a similar experience elsewhere. I am in good physical shape, but I think if I do continue to have problems, they will be related to following instructions and focus (though I do think I was TRYING very hard to focus!)
I certainly don’t want to be the person in the class that makes it less fun for other people by slowing things down to a snail’s pace. Can any of you seasoned yoga-ers tell me whether you think my problem may lie in the instructor, or in something else? Your advice is very much appreciated!