[QUOTE=High Wolf;46448]In my experience, Buddhism, either as a thought or religious practice is a ‘mistake’. I shall explain: Buddhism in general is against the desires that keep the all life going, and it dictates that desires should be abandoned immediately if self-realization is to be attained. It makes you to sit on meditation immediately, without ever allowing you to catalyze your emotions to elevate your consciusness!
In my experience, Buddhism is also a very depressing way of life. This has much to do with the way it rejects desires. It also lacks certain precepts to be acknowledged as universal. It is against embodiment, which is one of the essential qualities of man. It is a resignation from life and withdrawal into a symbolic realm of spirituality, where spirituality is not ‘experienced’ but ‘anticipated.’ In other words, Buddhists are not experiencers of spirituality, but the ‘anticipators’ of it.
Buddhism has become a religion with the establishments of Sanghas. And such estabishments are not Buddhist, but cultural extensions - intimately related to South-Asian cultures’ way of life. There can’t be such a thing as Western Buddhist, due to the simple fact that South-Asian cultures are not Western Cultures!
In short, Buddhism’s intention is good, but the way it presents itself is a mistake. Why need Buddhism anyway, while you have Patanjali and his brilliant Yoga Sutras, the scientific, non-religious methods to attain spirituality! More logical, more hands-on scientific approach, and it never promotes the swift abandonement of desires![/QUOTE]
In what way do you mean that buddhism asks you to swiftly reject desire in 20 years of being a buddhist I have never come across this teaching , Yes desire causes suffering , but it is a heavy thing to expect anyone to instantly let go of , although there is of course the possibility for the few. My understanding is that we are looking to cultivate positive emotional states
and to promote metta to ourselves and others , In fact loving kindness , a cultivation of friendship is one of the foundations of Buddhadharma ,thus the three jewels ,buddha ,a man who overcame what we can overcome ,the dharma , the way to freedom from the bonds that cause suffering and of course Sangha the fellowship of one another , that sangha is all those who have sought refuge in the three Jewels , Im not sure that the creation of a sangha is anything to do with religion , although I can see how it could lead to ossification if not lovingly challenged , not healthy. THe Buddha taught that friendship was everything, specifically spiritual friendship .
I cant see why sangha should only be south east asian , to follow that line , christianity came from the east , yet seems to have established itself in the west as you like to draw your lines on the map of this small planet. was christianity not first in India anyway (Kerala ) I have heard this from Indians
perhaps they were misleading me and rewriting history , which of course all nations are prone to do, which is why Im personally not a great fan of nationalism, in the old cliche it is often the refuge of the ignorant, Im no expert on christianity either.
I have found little to trouble me with the noble eightfold path of buddhadharma and my practise of yoga and the Ashtanga pantajali yoga ,THey seem close in what they are saying. I used to be troubled by the concept of iswara , but its all good now , as i understand Iswara is not a single creator God. I have to say that I have met Impressive people in the Buddhist world , and a few in the yoga world , Although Im not overly concerned about putting those people into seperate boxes ,Yogi/yoginis do seem to be on a more singular path than most Buddhists , possibly due to a lack of sangha or an emphasis on the individual, although I have not hung with the Theravadins , and am more drawn to Mahayana , vajryana teachings . Buddhism and yoga seem to be for me ultimately about energy , that is not fixed , not having fixed views , ie not having desire to be right , to be happy , to be sad ,to be rich , handsome its all impermanent and the trying to fixate on these states will lead to despair and frustation anyway, rather just flowing freely in the moment , and being connected to those around us using the balance of wisdom and compassion that we cultivate in our practise so that we may be that joy , and what emanates from that joyfull experience , being creative rather than reactive . I have to say that I have seen the Joy of a roomful of genuine Buddahdharma followers , I more often than not dont see it in a roomful of yogins , but of course glimpses are felt , and I have met depressed Buddhists I sometimes feel depressed types are drawn to the Buddha dharma . Buddhism says that we are living in the mundane and that there are supra realities , different realms we could exist in now , If you are right why dont we (Buddhists) just shoot ourselves and surely that would bring an end to suffering , maybe some of them are dwelling in extremely positive mental states and they are actually enjoying the blessing of life .
I mean does the dalai lama look depressed ? would you say that was his modus operandi ? Is that what comes through for you ?
I am not a scholar and do not wish to enter into debate , but would rather occasionally dip in to the religous forum as I very much support the necessity of good debate , ie that carried out with intelligence and decency . it is of course big in Buddhism and a good training ground for the intellect , no doubt traditional and around long before Buddhism , but I find it rather dry , and not a little depressing , unless done with wit , intelligence , and with the possibility of movement occasionally , which does sometimes happen.
I also hear your experience ,and respect that this is how you experienced your time practising Buddhadharma, I just wanted to share mine , and the deep gratitude I have for the Sakyamuni Buddha , just as I have for the teachers / Gurus who have shared the knowledge of Pantajali yoga . My mind has wrestled with these teachings but nowadays I seem to be letting go of the desire to wrestle , sometimes I just dont know , and that feels fine, and releasing, energetically , free from the desire of certainties , trusting my experiences , and being engaged and fully present , on the odd occasion.
as an aside I have always understood that patanjalis yoga sutras came after the Historical Buddha although that does not necessarily mean that they, the teachings do not predate the Buddha , but I heard it here first , that it could be a conspiracy ! To what end Im not sure.
OM AH HUM VAJRA GURU PADMA SIDDHI HUM