Thanks for taking the time to respond.
Yes,Most definitely.The difference is that your cravings for 'sex', per se,in itself will diminsh if not go altogether once the training is underway.
The lust will be replaced by, and i know this might sound corny, by love.Because you won't be motivated by sex and the imagined end-point or net-gain( what do "I" typically get out of it) .In fact animals are biologically programmed to have sex to ensure continued propagation of the species. But the yogic practices alter the programming in seeking this kind of end-game,certainly in males regards ejaculation,the desire to release seed.(For women it said to be the desire to gain the seed though the dynamics maybe somehwat different....though we do share alot in common-in a tantric sex as polar opposites they are our shakti and males are their shiva though the reality is optimally we do best if we have cultivated a combination of both polar charges + & -)There is a kind of sophisticated re-programmiing that goes on in our software with regard to neurochemical processes and conditined responses to stimuli,new habits are set up. It's like you're getting a new a feedback loop that is contained within your nervous system so that wasted energy ,through losing it in the seed( most notably but in also in a countless myriad of other ways) is otherwise with this new dynamic creatively used to light up previously dormant areas of the brain.Partly why it results in expanded states of Consciousness.It is said that a great deal of energy is utilised in the production of semen in the body but then regularly wasted.Also it said that wommen can lose sexual essences at the cost of energy depletion but they don't suffer so much unless they do so a number of times.It was observed by yogis that huge energies were built up in those who moderated the frequency of sperm release.It has been posited that there are alchemical processes of sort at work here barely understood by popular science but acknwledged by the some of the most noted & respected sex authorities in the world on the subject.It is also documented by researchers with empirical evidence as such in scientific trials..The yogis say the prana turns into ojas-and there are syntheses involved. One of the by-products in this chain it is said is a substance called amrita that finally supposedly dribbles down from the roof of the mouth or soft palette after syntheses first in the stomach from the bladder- into 'soma' and subsequently after reaching the brain.It is said that this can confer the elixir of youth( & boundless energy,wisdom etc) and enable some yogis to even live on limited food,air and sunlight(all sources of or vehicles for prana/energy)withstand hunger and thirst.There was high publicity yogi young boy and also an old 70 yr old tibetan that had hibernated for a long time(underwater and elsehwere and observed) i think, that both hit the media recently that it's speculated also had this process going on inside their nervous system.
I will say that,yes, you will be able to have a great deal of sex, and have great sexual prowess and stamina.And without the need to ejaculate.But you will be be able to enage in the sensual pleasures involved in sex but using them for spiritual purposes.
You will infact get everything you asked for and probably a whole lot more.That's why they call it nirvana,ecstatic bliss etc.
So there will most certainly be tremendous benefits obviously all round for you and your partner. You will certainly be able to pleasure your partner,Lencho, no end and you will exude a great radiance and charm that will be strongly palpable the moment you even enter the room.A glance is all it will take to take you and your partner both into an ecstatic bliss frenzy.
So you could be having more 'sex'(it no longer becomes just about intercourse,no longer the be all and end all) but you will be engaged with the world or a partner because you wish to give of yourself rather than take something from that sense of other.A great deal of normal sex is a very contrived and often mechanical affair-the partner seeks something from the other or an end-game or temporary satisfaction(usually trying to disguise or masquerade as love-this is of course what they are likely seeking).. But if you undergo some of the prior yogic training ,because you are in such a deep state of relaxation couple with heightened awareness then tantric sex is kind of off the radar in term of the normal range of human experince. I think one swami described it as
'Imagine an orgasm and then multiply that 1000times except it is an orgasm that never stops and can continue 24/7' ;
this is what tantric sex is like,because indeed it is occuring within your own nervous system.He did question why people settle for mediocre sex when they can be having mindblowing sex- and he is right- all it needs is some extended training.So that certainly sounds like something that will motivate everyone into spiritual practices of one kind or another.I would'nt be surpised if you put the brain of such a yogi under a scanner then you would see for yourself areas of the brain lighting up normally dormant or fast alsleep in a sense.It means they are more awake and aware than the average person.They are having sophisticated sex involving typically alot of foreplay and extended stimulation once both partners are in on the training act.What you have done is really woken up the neural and psychic circuitry in the body and mind through tweaking some of our evolutionary software. In fact man's natural state is one of ecstatic bliss;it's just somehow we forget it or regard it as improbable.
So yes a BIG resoundinng YES to your query.