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Sexual energy is not sexual in origin. It is simply like all other energy.
when in the generative organ it is sexual. Next to heart supported by stomach,it is emotional. Expressed through skin their is tactile feeling.
The PROBLEM with sexual organ. Is the FEELING. It is a direct link to pleasure center of brain.
but! The fruit of the organ can be transformed. Vitality can be replenished on a literal level.
The fruit of the tongue is saliva “that may not be anatomically correct but u get the idea”
But! Lets talk practical application!
What makes the most sense to me is this: In an intimate relationship typically there is a partner who expresses more masculine energy, and feminine from the other. As the universal one energy that makes up cosmos is genderless, but a complete balance of masculine and feminine, sex, and even more so, deeply intimate sex, is a way of two opposite polarities coming together to become one in sacred union. Everything in moderation of course. The male reproductive system uses a lot of energy to up-keep, and you do loose some when a man ejaculates. women on the other hand do not loose any energy so the act of sex has less damaging effects on them, although they hold onto the karmic energy of there partner for a much longer time.
sex is needed to keep the life going so if you want to keep your life going by birth death and birth again keep indulging in sex. IF everyone would become celibate our species would die out.
Also it is different to have sex to make babies and have it for your the pleasure of it only. The more we indulge in sex the more the mind gets occupied by sex and getting sex for the next time. This is not using your energy in a healthy way it depletes your energy.
If you want to be above the world to break the birth cycles you need to be able to control your mind desires and so on. In this era however it is not needed to become 100% celibate. But you should start with controlling your urges when you can control your organs you have become your own master. Yoga is about mastering your mind and all that comes with it.
Also yoga is about to collect and preserve the energy so that it can go up to the crown. Indulging in sex all the time will make the energy stay in the root chakra.
If we believe it is the same thing that might be the cause to why holy people is so rare. There is a reason to why celibacy is mentioned and why monks and nuns should not engage in such acts.
Simply refraining from the act of sex. Is not a sufficient way of transmuting said energy though. That is the problem. If it was sufficient my gf should be spouting insights left and right as she has refrained two years.
It without doubt is the secret key disguised.
And I assure you all their is a way.
But the microcosmic orbit. Mantak Chia. Etc are only poor mans methods.
Their methods work,but not in the correct way. For energy and fluid does ascend,but not via the spine nor the frontal body.
Think about it. Their are two ways possible. Its either a full reverse. Or a suction into the kidneys.
This is a special condition.
In theory,and this is just a guess,I believe puburty to be a destruction of the condition that is nessacery for sublimination.
OF course you need to do combine it with spiritual practice, if you only avoid sex and do nothing. Its like sitting and waiting for the apples to fall and expect them to be collected by them selves.
The way is different for us all.
Sex does effect the practice of Kriya Yoga. Once every two or 3 weeks causes very little disruption but the differences in energetic levels are noticeable making the achievement of a mind made silent and receptive to finer vibrations controlled via life force control more difficult but not too much…
Many sessions of sex or sex with many releases and then attempting to Practice Kriya Yoga later or even for the next few days is enough to make one wish to remain celibate to avoid not being able to enter into the superior joys found in Kriya Yoga.
Here it is in plain English folks Kriya Yoga as I have learned it provides feelings of enjoyment that are much better than physical sex. This is not the end all and be all or even the point of practice. This is just a side effect that helps remove the urge for physical release.
So scriptural reference seems to know something.
This body is male, I can not speak for what female bodies do or do not encounter.
[QUOTE=Surya Deva;68710][B]Yes, there is a connection. You can test it for yourself - when you lose your sexual fluid(I will not use the e-word, in case it is against forum t&c) you will feel your energy levels fall.[/B][/QUOTE]
This does not apply to the tantric sex …
Are you talking from your own experience?
Well since I posted last there have been some big changes in my practice thanks to achieving Kechari. My system has become super charged.
Release does not appear to be an issue with diminished energy now. However compared to the superior joys I am finding in Deep Kriya practice sex is becoming a very poor cousin. If not for marriage I would just abandon it at this point.
[QUOTE=fakeyogis;78157]Are you talking from your own experience?[/QUOTE]
Not only, but I am a newbie here, and am not allowed to post links.
[QUOTE=Seeking;78158]Well since I posted last there have been some big changes in my practice thanks to achieving Kechari. My system has become super charged.
Release does not appear to be an issue with diminished energy now. However compared to the superior joys I am finding in Deep Kriya practice [B]sex is becoming a very poor cousin. If not for marriage I would just abandon it at this point.[/B][/QUOTE]
Sex (the regular / physical one) is really not much compared to the pleasures one may get from Yoga.
Links has no value, experience has.
IF we read that tantra sex is not as common sex and we didnt experience it has no value. Even if i read people stating it is so i must experience my self otherwise i would be a blind fool.
Also we can experience sex and if we believe it does not deplete us our mind can give us an energy boost for some days i mean even mind can cure you from uncureable deceases. most dont know how smart the ego really is. The last thing the ego wants is you becoming fully realized.
So actually we can never really know before we get self realized if the mind played us a trick or not. What we can do though is to become aware as the awareness will lessen the ego ability to controlling us. So if we would become fully realized we would no if tantric sex is good or not.
It does not matter if we have sex or not the important thing is, can we control our impulses and our body and sense organs, or can the opposite sex control us like puppies. This would be the first step for people to manage. Then after this next step could be applied.
Remember the path is different for us all. So dont follow some path because they say it will lead you to ultimate truth , experience the diversity instead and collect the valuable experience out of it…
[QUOTE=fakeyogis;78202]Links has no value, experience has.[/QUOTE]
Well, my personal experience is no different from what is described in the texts about the tantric sex.
I can “ejaculate” many times without loosing my energy, on the contrary, I am using it as a medicine.
Concerning the control, I don’t believe, the oposite sex is controlling my impulses whatsoever.
Cheers.
Then that is great for you.
[QUOTE=fakeyogis;78230]Then that is great for you.[/QUOTE]
Not only …
If you ever transmute semen and sexual Jing/bindu into shen/ojas you will know, as long as its a strong transmutation. When you are smacked in the face,you never question if it really happened. :p.
Tantric sexual sublimination. I have never once seen a competent method for it.
although the Chinese explain it best,their methods are just as incompetent.
More or less it comes from incompetent understanding.
Take mine. I am no master thus my understanding is incompetent and incomplete.
Oh it’s not that difficult, well atleast not for me now. I remember being young before the madness of puberty disrupted my mind with bodily demands. I remember thinking my God these urges these desires are so terrible will I ever be freed from this controlling monster demanding ejaculation these horrible controlling impulses to release. I felt great shame every time I relented to the bodies demands.
So I asked my Father who was close to 40 at the time he replied it gets easier with age right now and for the nexy 20 years or so it will be at it’s worst. I thought to myself this is terrible why do we have this at all this body is such a crude animal.
So years passed and the bodies demands led me to all kinds of activites with many women, finally I met my wife and we married. All jokes aside Marriage is the key to a more celebate life.
Overtime I came to respect and love my wife so much the very thought of using her body for sex today has become abhorrent.
Now add Kriya Yoga into the mix and I experience ever new joy and experiences 1 to 3 times per day as well as afterwards.
Those acting out ejaculating like animals are the true celebates and renunciants if they only knew the things I do they would be shocked even as I am by what this is costing them in return.
Those doing so ride the waves of depletion followed by building up again but never gain true and lasting satisfaction.
Where my Father still among us I could now educate him and say Sex is easy to put aside all you need is right undersanding and something to take it’s place, that is superior and when you discover that ejaculating diminishes that superior experience the desire for sex is put aside even as a teenager puts aside his bicycle in favor of driving a car.
It is all so simple when you find the right tools. No need to burn in lust or desire the right tools take care of this for you. Sex what a joke.