[QUOTE=Joanna63;59187]I was hoping perhaps there were some more specific things I should focus on as well. [/QUOTE]
Joanna,
Generally speaking, adaptive misalignment is accompanied by a reciprocal problem elsewhere in the spine. For example, your “straight neck” may be the result of a deeper, stronger misalignment in your hips, lumbar spine, weakness in the lower abdomen, a straight thoracic spine, winged scapulae, etc: things that go unnoticed because the pain is referred elsewhere. That’s the nature of my caution here: not to be overly preoccupied with the neck when the problem might be mostly elsewhere.
By all means, do what you can with relaxation, anti-inflamatories, gentle stretches, massage, etc. Alexander Technique people or Feldenkrais practitioners may be able to help you. Not easy to find or afford, but they may give you some clues to long-term changes you can make in your mechanics. Those things have to be evaluated by qualified people. They can go a long way, it’s one degree at a time, hopefully in succession, but that’s really all we can ever do.
I have had to deal with the same problem for many years and have adapted my own system for relief of pain, realignment and strengthening of posture. I invite you to take a look. I continue to breakthrough and improve mainly through deep release in my hips through use of horse, warrior and eagle stances, alternating isometrics (mudra) of the upper-extremities, as well as becoming aware of the elevation of the chin. I have had to hold it slightly higher than I thought and let things change from below.
I feel lucky now as I once used to lie in bed at night and cringe with pain, wondering how I was going to get out of it. For years, I could not lie on my left side, never on my stomach with my head turned to the left. Chi Harmony PRO is the result and I have yet to find anything better (short of regular asana practice).
peace,
siva