Seems to be a good question to me. Answer varies from time to time, but just now I felt like talking about it.
On some level, I guess I know happiness is in me, there is nothing “outside” that I really require to feel happy. Also I seem to know that seting myself reasons, requirements to be happy maks me feel not happy, UNTIL all those things will happen. And finally, I seem to know that there are moments of happiness (my friend gave me that idea and I like it) meaning that often people expect that at some point in their life they will be happy, finally, and it will last, but my friend believes that there are moments, when you wish this moment would never end, and those are moments of hapiness, and that what hapiness realy is.
Yet, all the above seem to be just truths I have accepted only in my mind, but not be whole me, and so I have all sort of expectations what needs to happen for me to be happy: I want to love and be loved be someone I will be with a relationship with; I want to be a better person, more evolved, more in the moment… I even do yoga to be more happy (often helps me to be in the moment and feel happy, but for short ammounts of time) rarely, I experience moments of being happy just by myself, just because I am, I have myself, and those are very strong. But somehow, a moment ends and its as if I`v forgotten about it, and again chase my carrots on a stick. So I guess I know happiness comes from within, and yet am too busy by catching other things to find it, yet I am not yet able to change that.
What are your thoughts and ideas about it? Being happy, so simple, and so difficult.