Hello All,
It’s approximately 9 months since I put my question regarding my back problem on this forum.
I am happy to let you know that I am free from back pain. I also would like to
share my experience.
Since 2006, I have always had some kind of back problems. It was never chronic but, my back was always a bit stiff. By 2009, I would hurt my back more often doing mundane stuff. Activities that were easy would just hurt my back. I started taking extra precautions but, never actively looked for reasons for my back pain. An occasional visit to the Chiropractor would help.
However, by 2011, my back pain was chronic. I started looking at other ways to treat my back. Yoga definitely helped but it never completely could take away the pain.
I also started looking at stress as factor for my back pain. As I always had a rational and logical way of looking at life, I never could comprehend that stress can cause back pain.
I had also started a home project and a small business in 2009. As I come from joint family, I was always asked to give the contracts involving my business to my Father in law. My FIN is a very passive aggressive man and I am an extremely non confrontational man. I would do anything to avoid a confrontation. To the extent that, I would even not listen to my heart or intuition.
I always knew in my heart and gut that giving the contracts to my FIN is a bad idea. But, I also knew that if I do not, then it is the end of my marriage. However, as I am a “Rational” guy and I could not find any reason on paper to not give the contracts to my FIN (Head over Heart), I gave the contracts to my FIN in Dec.
I still remember the pain in my stomach the day I was signing the document.
By April 2012, It was evident it was a bad decision. He tried to take over my business and I just lost it. I was being asked to restrain myself and be courteous when I deal with my FIN even after all that was going on. But this time, I just had other plans. I had a cold sweat and slight fever when I called him. We got into a verbal confrontation on the phone and but this time ,I did not hold back. I just let him have a piece of my mind. I knew it was over. I went to bed that night with my adrenaline running high.
The next morning… and you will not believe this…my back pain was gone. I could bend my back completely. Tying a shoelace was not a problem!!! I just could not believe this!!
I just can’t believe that stress and emotional disturbances can cause such things in your body. But most of all, I have realized that I would treasure my heart and my intuition (Heart over Head) over anything else!
[B]“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant.
We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.” - Einstein[/B]
[B]"Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition."
Steve Jobs[/B]
Thank you very much!!