This is all simply my humble opinion of course:
I honestly don’t think it’s a matter of “doing” anything. Things such as emotions, or as you described, “complexes” will rise up through out life. Recognizing what is going on for you, as you have, is the first step.
You say that people in power are intimidated by you and you feel the same. To me this sounds like perhaps you are presenting yourself to these people in a way that reduces your own intimidation, and in turn makes them feel it. If you feel like you have to pretend to be someone other than yourself around people in “power”, you are feeling inferior. This is what I would take a look at. Realizing that you are just as valuable as they are and that we are all just human can be harder than it sounds, but this is where I would start.
I don’t have a suggestion for a practical solution, only that you could take a closer look at what is causing these feelings for self and why you are interpreting the other person as being intimidated.
I hope that makes some sense and helps even a little bit!