Yoga sex

I’ve been reading about taoist sex and I have a lot of questions. Of course I know this is not a taoist sex forum but I am sure that there must be some similar yoga practices. Basically I want to know more about this internal orgasm for men. I want to know how to do it and I am confused about some aspects of the nature of this orgasm.
I read that -(lets call it linga as that is the sanskrit name for it) the linga goes through four stages, soft, waking up, hard enough for sex and then just about to come. so the article that i read seemed to be saying that once we reach the just about to come stage then the semen is already in the stem and if it doesnt come out then it just flows back into the body in what they call a retrograde ejaculation.
now the taoists say this is better than ejaculating because the energy is not lost but the thing is it is an actual ejaculation and after some time the linga will not be aroused any more.
so i am not sure but it seems to me that the taoists are recomending that we practice sex without reaching that just about to come stage, if that is the case then what type of internal orgasm are we supposed to experience?
is it a different type of deeper and slower orgasm?
does anybody know anything about this?

The branch of yoga you?re probably seeking is Tantra but it has nothing to do with the perverted western adaptation that has become popularized these days where one becomes entangled in the pleasures of sex and becomes a slave to the mind/body.

getting entangled in the pleasures of sex sounds pretty good to me…

vajroli, in HYP and elsewhere.

what is hyp? higher yoga practice?

HATHA yOGa pRADIPIKA

[QUOTE=subalster;65045]getting entangled in the pleasures of sex sounds pretty good to me…[/QUOTE]

Used to strengthen not weaken oneself, rising above lower levels of consciousness by developing senses, control, redistribution and conversion of sexual energy towards deeper inner awareness?aiding higher levels of consciousness, different strokes for different folk?s ?indulgence/suppression? neither should be condemned nor glorified, simply a disposition, As is.