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I think you have seen only one image of India. I know it is not good to tell home’s private problems to someone other person. But I think it is necessary to explain you why I do not want to be get married.
We have been taught about Brahmacharya, garhastya, vana-prasthya and moksha in schools.
And I am totally agree with this formula to live life perfectly.
I think this formula(The formula of 4 stages of life) works only if everything is fine in country. This formula was created many many years ago when “dharma” was controling the king. Now there is no “dharma” only “money” controls the politicians.
Here in India the corruption is very high. Our government runs schemes to provide work to poor people, education and food to poor children. But many of those poor people do not get full wage, many teachers(not all but many)steal meals of poor students. Judiciary is also corrupted. But it is less corrupted compared to other areas.
And what happens if someone rise his/her voice against corruption: He/she gets killed.
We need another “Freedom Movement” against this corrupt system.
I do not want to make someone fatherless or widow. That’s why I want to remain unmarried. I do not want to take any family responsibility so that I can give my 100% to my country.
If you still not understood lets take another example, In bollywood movies, in the end, the hero always gets his heroine or gets married with his heroine. But super hero never marries with his heroine.
Super hero like Spiderman, Superman, Batman and even Indian super hero Shaktimaan have their girlfriends but they do not marry. Why? You will say because writer of story do not want to let them marry. This is half correct answer. The writer do not let them marry because if they marry they will not be able to fight for society/country.
Hero marry always but Superheros never.
I heard that some aasana’s can help to remain bachelor.They are not 100% working solution but can help.
If it is true please let me know about those things.