Now, relating all of this back to my question on how can we practice the truth of absolute reality at our relative reality. In Vedanta it is considered absolutely true that all is Brahman i.e. all is the infinite one consciousness. Thus we must know that whatever we are perceiving - whatever object: form, taste, smell, touch, thought, feeling, person is all just modifications of that one infinite consciousness. Thus everything we perceive really is an illusion(including our notion of selfhood) and the essential truth is that everything is, we are that infinite one consciousness expressing itself in a myriad ways.
HOWEVER
How does identifying with that absolute truth that all is that one infinite consciousness make any difference to our practical life? We know today the sun does not set or rise, that it is just the earth orbiting around the sun, but still we all use the expression “sun set” and 'sun rise" and live by it. It really makes no difference to us knowing that that it is the earth orbiting around the sun, we still act as if the sun is orbiting around the earth.
It only becomes relevant knowing that the earth is orbiting around the sun in astrophysics, to make correct calculations, but otherwise most people could just continue believing the sun is orbiting the earth with no difference to their life. In like manner, if it really is true that everything is that one infinite consciousness, it does not really make any difference to the ordinary persons life whose consciousness is definitely not felt as infinite. Until they are not at that absolute level, this truth cannot set them free.
How to get to that absolute level?
My understanding after reading a lot of spiritual literature is that there are two ways of doing this and it ironically mirrors two kind of psychotherapeutic approaches in psychology: CBT/NLP and Psychoanalysis. In CBT/NLP one acts as if they are already there. The way you would be if you get there, is how you act at the very beginning. This flows into my earlier approach to spirituality: “Act like a god” If you really that absolute one infinite consciousness, then act as if you are, rather than acting as you right now. As somebody once said to me, “You are a prince among men” so act like it. This means changing your behaviours and your conscious thinking patterns to mirror what a god would be like. If you were a god, how would you walk, talk and act in life? What what your attitudes be to life and to others? When you have answered that for yourself you bring these behaviours, attitude and mindsets to your current life.
Does it really work?
The other approach involves being a passive witness to life and the world. It involves releasing all the conditioning we have acquired to reveal the absolute state of being. Rather than acting as if you are already there, this approach involves accepting where you are already and to gradually remove all the obstructions that are preventing you from getting where you want. It is a slow and developmental process. In Yoga every level of our being is purified(physical, emotional and mental, spiritual) and it said to take lifetimes of purification efforts(via Patanjali’s Kriya Yoga) before the absolute state is revealed.
The first approach is what I call the path of arrogance. Simply, because in the beginning acting like a god when you clearly are not creates a lot of arrogance. In the beginning rather than treating others like gods too, one starts to treat like them mortals and looks down upon them. However, the kind self-empowerment it produces in oneself gives one a lot of charisma and magnetism, making one a leader of others, rather than a follower. It certainly feel very good to say, “I am god” and maybe that good feeling reflects our real knowing deep down that we are god. We somehow feel that we are beautiful, brilliant people and deserving of nothing less than everything - even if the reality of our current situation maybe the right opposite. But apparently in the long term by simply acting as if we do actually get there
The second approach I call the path of boredom. This is because in the beginning it is boring because one denies themselves any enjoyment. It is also the path of humility because we humble ourselves to the higher power(rather than acting like we are it) and accept the higher power’s guidance in our life, rather than seeing ourselves as actors with free will. We go through intense penance denying ourselves sensory and wordy pleasures and enjoyments. When others are out there enjoying themselves, we are in our solitude with only ourselves.
Let’s be honest the second approach is boring, painful and slow. It may in the end lead to a state of bliss and enlightenment, but that end might be several lifetimes away! In the beginning one must endure a lot of boredom, that life becomes dull, unexciting and depressing. How many people can truly commit to this path? However, if the first approach does not work, then I guess we have no choice!