[QUOTE=FlexPenguin;40369]I think he just had a crush on kareng.[/QUOTE]
Wow, so it wasn’t just me who thought that!!
[QUOTE=FlexPenguin;40369]I think he just had a crush on kareng.[/QUOTE]
Wow, so it wasn’t just me who thought that!!
Just glad it wasnt a splosh!:rolleyes:
[QUOTE=YogiAdam;40277]Do some weights! Heavy exercises. Squats, Push-ups, chin-ups etc. If you need to raise your sex drive and confidence, you need testosterone. Heavy lifting exercises help to put muscle on and increase your natural testosterone levels. Increased testosterone will raise your sex drive, help with sleep, decrease depression, and improve confidence. If there was anyone who sounded like they need to do a little weight lifting, it’s you. Best of luck my friend.[/QUOTE]
False i always lift weight but i injury myslef i have since chronic pain …
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Originally Posted by YogiAdam
Do some weights! Heavy exercises. Squats, Push-ups, chin-ups etc. If you need to raise your sex drive and confidence, you need testosterone. Heavy lifting exercises help to put muscle on and increase your natural testosterone levels. Increased testosterone will raise your sex drive, help with sleep, decrease depression, and improve confidence. If there was anyone who sounded like they need to do a little weight lifting, it’s you. Best of luck my friend.
False i always lift weight but i injury myslef i have since chronic pain …
My friend, it seems you missed the spirit and main point of Yogiadams post.
The main focus was EXERCISE. No matter what form it takes. I am sure you can find some sort of activity that you can do.
Also, don’t keep finding reasons why you can NOT do a thing. It’s time to start looking for what you CAN do, and stop focusing on what you feel you can’t do.
it’s all in your perception.
Oh dear. I posted that last before I went back to read all the posts since my last visit to this thread.
It does appear that Chamssou really has no desire to truly change his situation, as the ONLY reply he had to ALL those suggestions was why he can’t do weightlifting and to state that it won’t work anyway.
Chamssou, I wish you the best, but as long as you cling to the certainty that your life is miserable, you keep it that way. It shows in your resistance to ALL the suggestions put forward in reply to your question.
you create your own reality.
Please look up the definition of compassion in English. I feel you choose to distort it by only going with your French translation, and it was “spoken” to you in English, so you really should use that translation.
[QUOTE=Joanna63;42126]Oh dear. I posted that last before I went back to read all the posts since my last visit to this thread.
It does appear that Chamssou really has no desire to truly change his situation, as the ONLY reply he had to ALL those suggestions was why he can’t do weightlifting and to state that it won’t work anyway.
Chamssou, I wish you the best, but as long as you cling to the certainty that your life is miserable, you keep it that way. It shows in your resistance to ALL the suggestions put forward in reply to your question.
you create your own reality.
Please look up the definition of compassion in English. I feel you choose to distort it by only going with your French translation, and it was “spoken” to you in English, so you really should use that translation.[/QUOTE]
Listen , i wrote a looong text for u to give a lot of information sudddly the electricity in my village is not stable , he cut so much .so im angry and i cannot repet the same text with same strenght …
i had a lot say but …
i have exahsuted brain i lost concentration …
[QUOTE=chamssou15;42242]i have exahsuted brain i lost concentration …[/QUOTE]Don?t think, just enjoy.
[QUOTE=Seeker33;42248]Don?t think, just enjoy. :D[/QUOTE]
Enjoy what ?
meant that always i have so much of things to say but its seems i repet always the same things about the same problem ,
In most of all forum which chek out there none serious they are like the doctor who want only ur money …
You suggested you over-masturbate. Some masturbation is OK but you know that from a yoga perspective certainly too much of it can be very draining for your energy levels, and empirical research and expert studies back this up, as well as depleting for the brain and so forth.Stop thinking about it. Stop watching porn, that’s if you do happen to indulge in that, and so on.That can be a bad one for that i think…You don’t need any of it, incl. sex. Self-pleausure in moderation is okay though.You just accept your self that is all , that you are a biological creature and so on.
You know if you want to change yourself you have to have a great willingness to change and that occurs from within, real change on a profound deeper level occurs from that place.See if i was you i would start praciticing yoga if you feel i can help and you are so inclined.
You know you will put off girls and potentially make them uncomfortable if you talk like that-i.e i feel miserable,sexually frustrated and so on.It’s not going to make you any more attractive , is it?.Everyone experiences these things at some point,even girls. How are you gonna respond to it? Acceptance and willingness and desire to change.That’s why isuggested you looked at some of the links i gave. You are right doctors and other professionals are likely often just interested in your money. They don’t really care what happens to you once you’ve left their surgery/waiting room. The buck will and always does stop at you, bottom line.Are the docs really interested in you? No, i don’t think so.
You’ve come to exactly the right place for non-judgemental advice (neutrally invested) and hope you get it, stuff that you find useful & helpful.
[QUOTE=core789;42263]You suggested you over-masturbate. Some masturbation is OK but you know that from a yoga perspective certainly too much of it can be very draining for your energy levels, and empirical research and expert studies back this up, as well as depleting for the brain and so forth.Stop thinking about it. Stop watching porn, that’s if you do happen to indulge in that, and so on.That can be a bad one for that i think…You don’t need any of it, incl. sex. Self-pleausure in moderation is okay though.You just accept your self that is all , that you are a biological creature and so on.
You know if you want to change yourself you have to have a great willingness to change and that occurs from within, real change on a profound deeper level occurs from that place.See if i was you i would start praciticing yoga if you feel i can help and you are so inclined.
You know you will put off girls and potentially make them uncomfortable if you talk like that-i.e i feel miserable,sexually frustrated and so on.It’s not going to make you any more attractive , is it?.Everyone experiences these things at some point,even girls. How are you gonna respond to it? Acceptance and willingness and desire to change.That’s why isuggested you looked at some of the links i gave. You are right doctors and other professionals are likely often just interested in your money. They don’t really care what happens to you once you’ve left their surgery/waiting room. The buck will and always does stop at you, bottom line.Are the docs really interested in you? No, i don’t think so.
You’ve come to exactly the right place for non-judgemental advice (neutrally invested) and hope you get it, stuff that you find useful & helpful.[/QUOTE]
hello man ,thanks for responce howver i vant understand all so im gonna answer u as i feel.
i practice masturbation a lot becoz it the unique thing who bring me a lilltle bit of pleasure ,i live as beast i have no contact social ,…
i cant stop it i need really help …i can stop only 20 or 25 days but during this long period i feel not myslef a man …espacially i lost my sex drive totally …
u should to know im not attractive not becoz i express like a do here , im talking about seduction in street somone with sight he can date women without using speech … i feel my slef ugly even in reality im normal …
Just another thing …i just check ur profil i saw its full of comment ,but my own profil in alla forums is empty …no friends like in real …
Do u speak english more thant me ? yes and that help you
Are u more mature and intelligent than me ,? may be but that not mean im stupid …
i cant stop it i need really help …i can stop only 20 or 25 days but during this long period i feel not myslef a man …espacially i lost my sex drive totally …
Hey ,that’s more than me! And sounds pretty good to me. Now you’re showing me up making me look inadequate and embaraassed.
Maybe you’re being a bit hard on yourself,hohoho.
u should to know im not attractive not becoz i express like a do here , im talking about seduction in street somone with sight he can date women without using speech … i feel my slef ugly even in reality im normal …
You want to change your perspective, that is how you perceive yourself.See yourself as attractive. You say yourself you’re " normal".I think everyoone may be slightly dysfuntional in their own way. They may just have better ways of hiding it.
Just another thing …i just check ur profil i saw its full of comment ,but my own profil in alla forums is empty …no friends like in real …
Do u speak english more thant me ? yes and that help you
Are u more mature and intelligent than me ,? may be but that not mean im stupid …
Yu make friends just by talking to people like you are boldly doiing here. You have been very open & frank so you must have alot of courage to do that.
Are u more mature and intelligent than me ,? may be but that not mean im stupid …
I don’t think so.Just change your perspective of yourself. You are some that is full of potential & ripe for yoga practice. The girls will be queuing up for you once you start doing yoga.You’ll be able to seduce them with a mere glance.That is all it will take. You will just need to roll your head back… and they will all come swooning in on you;)…
[QUOTE=core789;42281]Hey ,that’s more than me! And sounds pretty good to me. Now you’re showing me up making me look inadequate and embaraassed.
Maybe you’re being a bit hard on yourself,hohoho.
You want to change your perspective, that is how you perceive yourself.See yourself as attractive. You say yourself you’re " normal".I think everyoone may be slightly dysfuntional in their own way. They may just have better ways of hiding it.
Yu make friends just by talking to people like you are boldly doiing here. You have been very open & frank so you must have alot of courage to do that.
I don’t think so.Just change your perspective of yourself. You are some that is full of potential & ripe for yoga practice. The girls will be queuing up for you once you start doing yoga.You’ll be able to seduce them with a mere glance.That is all it will take. You will just need to roll your head back… and they will all come swooning in on you;)…[/QUOTE]
i wanna just to telle u im depress not for nothing but i was gathering negavity since when i was boy ( i gave details in previous thread) so when u fail and fail an fail dan fail u would be never postive becoz always u lost and dont forget we never stay again ,i said im jalouse about younger how got better live than me , they have girls they have fun , somthing motivate them .
what i need is clear , i dont need remedy expct for my paiful articulation but for me ,i think i need really som strong women who help me to reconver from this night mare who is reality …which i cant escape it …
remember i have a lot of things to say but i cantthrow out becoz im stil tired i try to struggle …
you said u have courage ,but i thing its not courage becoz none know who iam behind this post .
Hi,
No, i think you’ve explained your situaion really well.Big heavy-ish problems often need big solutions.And things can get really bad, like a living nightmare like you suggest.Like the only way out is killing yourself. Ironically this can be a good thing as we tend to put what matters into better perspective.
I think it’s a mistake to compare yourself with other people, younger,having more fun, more women sex enjoyment although i understand where you’re coming from.
You are a ripe candidate for yoga practice for yoga practice. It is when the gooing gets tough, when life get’s really hard then we can be forced to draw on resources we may have previously never imagined we might have.There was something someelse said to me here Hubert when i thought i could possibly end up in jail- seriously ,prob. not that bad but i’d rather not thankyou.Also if you’re not feeling great it’s not necessarily a barrel of laughs,not necessarily somewhere you want to end up…
The adivce i got which was good , & true, was ’ God will only give you as much as you can handle’. I thanked pandara but did’nt really thank Hubert although he’s acknowledged now. Help is out there but it has to start at home.What does that mean? That means well you start off with the baby steps.You climb the mountain by praciticing putting one foot in front of the other. Eventually it get’s easier because you learn to do it unconsciously ,out of habit.
I know what it is like to be weary of feeling weary of life.I don’t know the full extent of your pain but from a yoga perspective i would encourage you to take a yoga class if such a thing exists in Algeria(muslim country?) or find a meditation/yoga techer that teaches effective methods and can be of help and offer guidance and what can be a very troubling situation. I know how bad things can get.When topping yourself seems like the only sensible option. The first step is to change your perspective and do things that are always hellping yourself, in that idrection, one step at a time. Things should change and get better over time.
Also sometimes when we fail we get put down which does’nt help again & again like yousaid. In that case you need to beleive in yourself more. It does’nt matter what others say do & think- that is their business.I think yo get that though just thought i would mention it. But i can relate to some of what you’re talking about. Maybe not all of it as i’m not you and all our experiences of life can be so wildly different. We all share similar struggles but they may play out in quite different ways, have different trajectories, follow different paths. Part of the magic of life is sometimes not knowing wherere or when one path ends and another begins.Keep an open mind and as i say try your hand out with the yoga practices and see how you get on. But stick with it.Attend a class to begin with seems like a good viable option.
what i need is clear , i dont need remedy expct for my paiful articulation but for me ,i think i need really som strong women who help me to reconver from this night mare who is reality …which i cant escape it …
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Yes, what you need is a good strong woman… first, this woman should tie your hands behind your back and feed you oysters everyday This would work I think, as a start
Oh and a gag to stop you continuously whining about yourself
[QUOTE=chamssou15;42262]Enjoy what ?
meant that always i have so much of things to say but its seems i repet always the same things about the same problem ,
In most of all forum which chek out there none serious they are like the doctor who want only ur money …[/QUOTE]Enjoy the Spirit/Atma/ in your heart.
Try awakening of Kundalini with Sahaja yoga.
You can?t pay for this.
[QUOTE=core789;42288]Hi,
No, i think you’ve explained your situaion really well.Big heavy-ish problems often need big solutions.And things can get really bad, like a living nightmare like you suggest.Like the only way out is killing yourself. Ironically this can be a good thing as we tend to put what matters into better perspective.
I think it’s a mistake to compare yourself with other people, younger,having more fun, more women sex enjoyment although i understand where you’re coming from.
You are a ripe candidate for yoga practice for yoga practice. It is when the gooing gets tough, when life get’s really hard then we can be forced to draw on resources we may have previously never imagined we might have.There was something someelse said to me here Hubert when i thought i could possibly end up in jail- seriously ,prob. not that bad but i’d rather not thankyou.Also if you’re not feeling great it’s not necessarily a barrel of laughs,not necessarily somewhere you want to end up…
The adivce i got which was good , & true, was ’ God will only give you as much as you can handle’. I thanked pandara but did’nt really thank Hubert although he’s acknowledged now. Help is out there but it has to start at home.What does that mean? That means well you start off with the baby steps.You climb the mountain by praciticing putting one foot in front of the other. Eventually it get’s easier because you learn to do it unconsciously ,out of habit.
I know what it is like to be weary of feeling weary of life.I don’t know the full extent of your pain but from a yoga perspective i would encourage you to take a yoga class if such a thing exists in Algeria(muslim country?) or find a meditation/yoga techer that teaches effective methods and can be of help and offer guidance and what can be a very troubling situation. I know how bad things can get.When topping yourself seems like the only sensible option. The first step is to change your perspective and do things that are always hellping yourself, in that idrection, one step at a time. Things should change and get better over time.
Also sometimes when we fail we get put down which does’nt help again & again like yousaid. In that case you need to beleive in yourself more. It does’nt matter what others say do & think- that is their business.I think yo get that though just thought i would mention it. But i can relate to some of what you’re talking about. Maybe not all of it as i’m not you and all our experiences of life can be so wildly different. We all share similar struggles but they may play out in quite different ways, have different trajectories, follow different paths. Part of the magic of life is sometimes not knowing wherere or when one path ends and another begins.Keep an open mind and as i say try your hand out with the yoga practices and see how you get on. But stick with it.Attend a class to begin with seems like a good viable option.[/QUOTE]
hey man thanks again for ur interest…
i reconize first i havent understand all , howver im gonna give you my answer …
somtimes the will not enough , we need the appropriate condition to reach our goal…we need also somtimes the support of some personne ,all peoples who succed in this live they have always behind them someone boost them energy ,…they give them motivation …
i clarifie exactly what i need ,and its hurt me when i see that i lost my youth for nothing , i had none beside me ,i always should do everything by myslef , i learnt sport alone ,a adviced me self ,i used what the knowlege and exerience tio struggle to find solutions…i learnt french and english alone …i face the enemeies in the streets alone . im in my fu…N work alone …etc
i need srerenity , the people here in algeria they go to accross the mediteranie becoz they have praticallky the same pain even we havnt the same story …evrything is forbidden , evry things is impossible ,
Do you know that im waiting for my passport near one and half year ? do you know that im worrie for certificate of birth wich is pratically impossible to obtain it ? do you know i have a lot of disease wich i cant heal them becoz that cost a lot of money for me ?
do you know what that is means to be alone , silent all your live ?
wake up , im 35 and i never i can ever married , could never love and be loved ? do you find that normal you the western people ?
immagine i will married and talk wfor the first timle with women which i will propably not chose ,would you be happy if you was in my place ? how about my childs if i will have ? at the age of 50 i will have my first baby ? how i could have strenght to raise him while im old ? after 50 il will soon dye , so how my futur son will have an idea about how i look ? what he will said when we will be orfan ? when he grow he will said my father i dont know him but he was a looser …
i lost my libido and i have never sex ,do u find that normal ? put ur self in my place …i know u dont give importance becoz u will never pass by those pathetic conditions its extrem? for u that would never happed fo u and i swearrrr…if you was not in place i f u feel not shame and despoitement you would be not normal …
i was in military and dying was not worrie me , i wish to do in civilian war …becoz i knew exaclty what i would be …in the futur …and that not feelings its was calculated , i im affraid , becoz if ur in the same condition u will have the same fu… result s…