Did you mean infertile or impotent?
[QUOTE=Crumpled;12934]Interesting, but what about those men that are infertile, what is their place in the world ?
Diy, I have long since given up with that, as it causes extreme tension in the neck and head,a sort of high pitched screaming, it is not pleasurable, that I can tell you. Now I just channel that energy into my art and photography as a release, but even with that it is a very temporary release[/QUOTE]
well it would be hard to lump all of them togerthor and make one answer for all of them. I would think a case by case analysis would be more appropriate. Some peoples role here may not be to procreate anymore, If I did have all the answers I would be able to make a lot of money for my services 
just kidding
what is DIY?
I am peace, I am love, I am joy
I am neil
[quote=Alix;12937]Did you mean infertile or impotent?
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Infertile as in completely. Wrestled with that knowledge for over twenty years, still trying to find my place in the world, a component in the lifelong depression I have.
DIY is another name for masturbation, the latter being according to Billy Connolly, an accusing word.
I can imagine it is difficult. I hope you find some resolution.
crumpled,
many times we humans focus on our inadequacies (sp?) we spend our whole ives trying to fix them and often times to no avail. why is this? is it possible that if we learned to accept those things and choose to focus on what we are capable then maybe we would overcome without even trying. I dont know your situation and I wish you the best in it. In life there are many factors for why you may be infertile, what do you eat, do you give enough physical exercise, breathing practice, meditation, what is your view of woman, are they bueatiful creatins of God or somethibgn to screw, do you approve of your fathers view of woman, is there a metal block that you have not uncovered, do you try to expand your understanding, how much faith do you have, have you accepted yourself, do you have a spiritual leader you look up to, do you live life according to your mind our your heart etc…
so you are an artist, is it possible that you can find the beauty in your challenge? maybe you have not had real love between yourself and a woman, maybe you have not had real love for yourself. Maybe a beautiful thing about your challenge is that you can meet and talk to woman and sex is not the primary goal so you can get to know them.
My questions are all speculation crumpled. but one thing I can be pretty sure of is the more crumpled you believe you are, the more crumpled you will be. You were strong enough to get out of bed, strong enough to write your words here, there is something inside of you that still has faith otherewise you would not have taken the time. IMO you are only crumpled when you have given up, which you have not.
my best to you my brother, my heart goes out to you
with love
Neil
I am pece, I am lruth, I am joy, so is every girl and boy who claims themself
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[QUOTE=issacnewton;10206]Hi
Let me introduce myself. I am from India. I an 32 , male. I do some asanas
. Because of over mastrubation I have difficulty having erections. I am still single. The sensitivity of penis has almost become zero. So I have to mastrubate to make my penis erect. It doesnt become erect on its own.
I think this is serious problem and I am also thinking of going to
ayurvedic physician. I dont like allopathy much. So I want to know if there
are supplementary exercises in yog therapy. I heard about mulbandh and uddiyan bandh. Can anybody here suggest any yog therapy for this ?
I mastrubate twice a day and I think this is high frequency. But I cant control myself. I have to rectify these problems otherwise I cant get marry :D. In ayurveda also there is something called as Vajikarana therapy which I will look into.
Thanks
IN:D[/QUOTE]
Can’t help with the yoga and erections, but can say…
“Just as a life of virtue yields its own reward, a life of vice yields its own punishment” - Plutarch
Got to lay off the MB. After few weeks some sensitivity will return.
Check out:
and SCA, SA, SLA as well.
Yes, sex is crazy business for sure. I am always amazed each spring when I take walks around a local lake that has a large duck population. I see four male ducks surround a female to pin her down and take turns having sex with her all the while biting the feathers off her neck and head. They all seem to be driven and squawking loudly all the while. If they were humans, the males would get 20 years in jail most likely for such behavior. In any case, it is natures way … with ducks at least.
Below is a snip on the subject of praying mantis sexual practice (condensed) Or, skip this paragraph and get to my post if not interested. But, this paragraph just illustrates that all species have to deal with the same issues as humans more or less when it comes to sex…craziness and peace disruption. As the Taoist say…fleas come with the dog. so forget 100% peace if you are talking about participating in sex and forget 100% peace as well if you are thinking celibacy (unless you are dead to natures sex drive altogether.)
Celibates do have the possibility of more peace than the sex addict that gratifies all their sex desires. This is so because sexual stimulation produces chemicals in the brain and body, so the sex addict is on a constant high, whereas the celibate is hopefully less drugged up. But nature gives us some sex hype for free, so either way we can get drunk from our own efforts or from outside sources that are mostly beyond our control…the addict just helps nature with manufacturing more drugs internally around the clock.
From : How to Want What You Have:
“People who dedicate their lives to the pursuit of sensual pleasure find that the more pleasure they get, the more they want. Small, ordinary pleasures soon lose their power to please and must be replaced with more intense or exotic ones. Heedless sensualists usually meet a bad end. They learn the hard way that their desires are relentless and insatiable.”
Will you kill yourself in order to get some sex? This guy will.
Written by Patrick O’Brian on the subject of Sexual Practices of the Praying Mantis
Stephen watch the male mantis step cautiously towards the female mantis. In three strides he was upon her; his legs gripped her wing-covers; his antennae found hers and began to stroke them and copulation began. After a few minutes the female moved her triangular head pivoting it from left to right, then I there was a blur of movements so rapid that for all his care and extreme attention he could not follow them, and the males head was off, clamped there, a detached lemon, under the crook of her green praying arms. She bit into it, and the eye’s glow went out; on her back the headless male continued to copulate rather more strongly than before; all his inhibitions having been removed. Ten minutes later the female took off three pieces of her mate’s long thorax and ate them with every appearance of appetite, dropping a few crumbs in front of her. The male copulated on, still firmly anchored by his back legs. Stephen thought to himself, “You do not need a head, nor even a heart, to be all a female can require.” (end)
Animals are interesting to study when the subject turns to sex. we sometimes think that we are the only ones crazed with such feelings. for more on this subject check out http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Animal_sexuality And yes, many animals masturbate as well.
I used to handle wife almost continually in my old life. I learned I had to scale back with sex stimuli with wife inside the home as well as sex stimuli outside the home if I wished to be at peace. Sometimes we go a little too far with sex and need to be reeled back in. But in reality, sex is never perfect and it always needs to be adjusted somewhat. No, just being married is not a free pass to abusing sex stimuli all the time. It is no different from thinking you can drink all the time cause you own a whisky factory or eat rich food all the time if you are a four star restaurant owner.
Being hyped up is a byproduct of sex. One goes with the other, so no use beating yourself up over it. The nature of the beast with sex is to get excited, so this is what makes it tougher addiction than food and spending, as we can eat or spend and still be devoid of most of the excitement from these areas if we wish. But in general, we cannot participate in sexual activity without getting excited. In addition, it takes a day or two for some of us to go back to normal from sex, so this refractory period is another area to deal with whenever we get hyped up sexually. Is this refractory period bad? No, it is just how things are. The problem with addicts is they overdo things to a point of pain or even under penalty of death. (If you missed my earlier post "7 benefits addictions provide us and wish a copy write me direct.)
Perfection with sex? This is where most sex addicts fail. Where judgments have to be made, mistakes can and will happen. Forget perfection - look for direction. Addictions can go in 3 directions. We can always get a quick snapshot of our recovery direction by asking the question: Is our addiction frozen? Is our addiction growing? Or is our addiction declining? Aldous Huxley sheds some light on this “The only completely consistent people are the dead.”
Sexual Compulsives Anonymous (SCA) guidelines: is the activity placing unreasonable demands on my time and energy, will it place me in legal jeopardy or endanger my mental, physical or spiritual health?
Take Care,
i would take a break from masturbation and sex to allow the energy to replenish itself.
basically you want to do this:
- rest
- do yoga and other exercises
- take herbs that strengthen and replenish this lost energy, these are called JING herbs in chinese medicine and OJAS herbs in Ayurveda. Ashwagandha would be a good place to start.
You want to get on a tonic herb program along with your yoga practice. A year of this combined with as much rest as you can do will get you back to where you want to be.
This is what i did.
you are very welcome!
if you have any other questions, send me PM or email.
[QUOTE=dadaist dadaoist;12825]I was having lunch with some male martial artists recently and the subject turned to sexual alchemy, as it does. Ho hum. Anyway, one man was saying that he was attempting to reduce his “emissions” to one a month and that his girlfriend was not thrilled about this. I was the only woman there and I have a background in sexual health and depth psychology and while I find the whole subject of sexual energy very interesting I couldn’t help but feel that sometimes mens’ anxieties over depleting energy by excessive “emissions” are, at least to some extent, neurotic and rooted in primitive anxieties relating to castration and the loss of masculine power. I do believe that it’s possible for people to become addicted to masturbation inasmuch as people can use it to manage anxiety and also that people can feel safer indulging in DIY activity than taking the risk of actual intimacy with another person. However given the soaring rates of STI and the prevalence of HIV and hepatitis I don’t think that masturbation is always a sad, lonely choice, sometimes it is simply a choice to be loving to one’s self rather than risk disease and hurt by getting involved sexually with someone. Of course it is for each individual to know what it right for himself or herself and what is right will vary from person to person, depending on their situation. I also would like to add that I’ve met plenty of patients who masturbate twice a day or more or who have sex twice a day or more and who have no errectile problems whatsoever. That’s not to say it’s not a problem for you. If you think it’s a problem then it is a problem. I suppose I’m saying that I don’t know how much the problem is physiological and how much psychological.[/QUOTE]
I see what you are suggesting, but the loss of semen does exhaust men.
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Much of yoga is about redirecting vital energy up instead of down. Obviously, semen quickens life in an egg and qualifies as an alchemical miracle etc. So much of mystic writing is involved with loss of vitality or retaining/promoting vitality correlational to semen direction, I can not help but believe that simple discharge is draining. However, the Tantric literature etc. says that properly done it adds energy. I believe that there is orgasm without discharge tantrically. I know that it is mechanically possible. I am no adept and can’t relate experience therefrom but I have just as strong an orgasm and have had since my prostatectomy in 2002. I have no prostate and therefore no semen.My energy is great and it has been explained to me that my etheric body is unharmed by my operation. There are specific pressure points in Chinese medicine to stop discharge at the point of orgasm for the above reasons. the bandhas are all for this. They helped me tremendously after the operation. Namaste
Hi Isaac,
I won’t talk about controlling mind.
the mind and the body are inter-related. If you can’t control your mind
there is still something you can do in this case.
I prefer to treat this topic purely from yogic perspective. Yes moolbandha
certainly helps. But it also has a risk of increasing passion again. But that
doesn’t mean that you should not do it. Rather I advice that you must do
it. But in order to eradicate excessive lust from your mind you must do
Alternate Breathing (Anulom Vilom) pranayam. There is a yogic justification
for why passion increases too much (either physically or mentally) in some
people. The flow of pingala nadi (right nostril channel) is more as compared
to the flow of Ida nadi (left nostril flow). Maybe this is causing too much
of such thoughts. Try doing anulom vilom everyday for half an hour
comfortably. The best way to judge if you are doing it right is ask yourself
if you are enjoying the process. So do it with the speed that is most
soothing for you. Your mind will become balanced and you will get rid of
this habit.
And yes moolbandha is very important. Start gradually and try to increase
duration.
Mastrubation is obviously bad. Loss of semen is loss of life force in you.
Regards,
Deepak
Apart from herbal remedies for erectile dysfunction and other treatments, ‘Yoga’ is also very useful in treating erectile dysfunction. It relaxes the entire body while relieving the stress that might be the cause of erectile dysfunction. Secondly, the ancient Indian art of exercises- the Yoga- also presents excellent cardiovascular conditioning that help in treating any physiological condition causing erectile dysfunction.
Hi,
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- Intake of zinc .
- The herb ginkgo is used for erectile dysfunction
3.The herb ashwagandha (Withania somnifera) is sometimes called Indian Ginseng is also good to treat erectile dysfunction. - The study of Propionyl-L-Carnitine have also prove that it can be used to cure erectile dysfunction.
- L-arginine is an amino acid that the body uses to make nitric oxide which helps to increase the blood flow solve erectile dysfunction problem.
Thanks for sharing it. Yoga definitely increases the rate of blood flow in penile muscle which help in erectile dysfunction in men.
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