Fellow Yogi’s:
[B]What’s up with Yogi’s having such a problem with money and desire?[/B]
I’m a bit cautious to bring this up here, but being that I’m a new member, I figure I can take a chance and go out on a limb and address what I see as a VERY painful and problematic contradiction inside our community.
I’ve been wanting/waiting for the right place to express my frustration about this for a LONG time, as I feel like I get hit upside the head with resistance from Yogi’s at every turn.
I’ll openly admit, when I was 16 years old, all I wanted to do was get a plane ticket to India, find my “cave” and meditate my way to spiritual enlightenment (no joke).
But fast forward to today and my mindset and circumstances are quite a bit different.
[B]For example:
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[B]A.[/B] I’ve started a small business that does pretty well by average standards, and affords me and my wife the ability to live a pretty comfortable lifestyle. Yet Yogi’s seem to really NOT dig “business people”?
[B]B.[/B] The lifestyle I’ve chosen costs about 30K per month. I’m very grateful to be doing quite well in this economy despite many people loosing their jobs, yet it seems that I’m not looked on as being very “yogi like” from many here in the local community?
[B]C.[/B] I have a wife who also considers herself a “yogi” AND who has VERY expensive taste (go figure) and really likes “designer clothing” and “designer furniture” (we’re talking $200 jeans and $8,000 couches!). I’m more of a TJ Max kinda guy (or ROSS for those of you not familiar).
Many of our friends who are [B]yoga instructors[/B] drive beat up cars, are teaching 10-15 classes per week and are barely able to make ends meet (some even taking up a 2nd job waiting tables or bar-tending which brings up an interesting point).
When we hang out together it’s become apparent that a part of them admires us and our sense of purpose and clarity to create an abundant lifestyle, yet another part of them feels a TON of opposition to the way we live.
These issues have even come up a few times in conversation, but it’s usually very quickly brushed under the rug and made clear that money is a very sensitive subject for them.
[B]SO THE QUESTION IS THIS:[/B]
Why do so many people in the yoga community spend so much time focusing on being [B]“health conscious”[/B] and [B]“spiritually conscious”[/B], yet completely NEGLECT and even LOOK DOWN ON others who have taken the time to find balance with [B]“financial consciousness”[/B]?
DESIRE = Unspiritual?
MONEY = Evil?
BUSINESS = Manipulation?
If I had not taken taken the time (YEARS!) to finally “get money right” and heal my yogic mindset around money and desire, I would have FAR less of an ability to personally make a contribution (through my own example) and financially through giving to charity and providing seed capital to conscious businesses who had failed to raise necessary funds from attempting 100% [B]donation based[/B] models?
I am wondering if anyone else here struggles with money and desire in contrast to living a “Yogi Lifestyle” or has run into people who have… and I’d gain tremendous insight if you’d take a moment to post your thoughts, needs and feelings
Thanks in advance for helping me understand what appears to be a really BIG issue in our community.
Namaste.
-Jimmy