Hi CityMonk!
You’re not alone…we all come across people who annoy us. As you clear up your own issues and align yourself with the best of who you are, the less you’ll come across people like that. Think of them as your mirror…and I know that’s sometimes difficult to hear.
There are people who you run across whom you don’t know who irritate you, but there are also friends whom you CHOOSE to constantly be around…these are the people you have more control over, in terms of how much contact you have with them.
You’ll find that as you change and learn more about who you really are, some of the people you hang out with aren’t resonating on the same frequency as you anymore. Friends will drift out of your life, and new ones will appear. That’s natural. Be unattached about that. For the ones who drag you down and are now exiting your life, wish them well, then be open to meeting people who enrich your life.
I hope this helps! Now, go find some people who bring bliss to your life…
Laural Strang
[QUOTE=CityMonk;31865]How do you deal with people who annoy you?
I try to train myself to[U] be patient and accept them[/U] as they are.
Sometimes I do fine and I feel good about managing my impatience or anger. But sometimes I’m thinking about abandoning the relationships, since the person is impossible to handle.
I do not know should I keep practicing my patience and acceptance or this is the wrong way to practice it.
What do you think?[/QUOTE]