[QUOTE=thomas;48644]The disorder is in the desire to have sexual relations with the same sex.
However, it’s not a sin. The sin is in giving into the disordered desire and practicing it.
But I agree that we can all have jobs and otherwise function even though we have disordered desires and behaviors.[/QUOTE]
You think that having a desire for the same sex is a disorder? However desire is something we have naturally within us(Freud called us a desire producing machine) which we can learn and also inherit. I had no desire for Thai food until recently, when I first tried it and loved it. Now I desire Thai food. Similarly, I had no desire for kissing, until I tried it the first time and liked it. Now I love kissing.
Now a gay person desires to have contact with the same sex, and you have a desire for contact with the opposite sex. Why is their desire disorderly and yours orderly? Some people like Marmite and some people do not, does not make either person disorderly now does it? Now if you are going to tell me because only the congress between opposite sexes can conceive together, then fine, but desire is not about conceiving - it is still simply about what gives you pleasure. If two consenting adults of the same sex agree to pleasure one another sexually, how is that disorderly? It floats their boat - it does not float yours.