[QUOTE=Surya Deva;35415]Namaste, please tell me where I am generalizing about the fact that Christianity and Islam historically and still by in large hold beliefs that all non-believers are condemned and are going to hell.
Also point out the generalization where the crusades, jihads, inquisitions, genoide, persecutions which were done by the Islamic Caliphs and the Christian Church.
It is an uncontroversial historical fact how much war, death, destruction and violence has been done by Christianity and Islam. Where is the generalization?
Can we just brush under the carpet the millions that have been killed in cold blood by the religions of Christianity and Islam? Should we just pretend it did not happen, just so that we can maintain the farce that religions are equal and promote love and peace?[/QUOTE]
Hi Surya,
You make me feel like as a Christian I am a murderer, judgemental, intolerant and ignorant, I don’t believe I am, but this is how your statements make me feel. Is it your intention to make me feel this way, do you really think this is who I am? I’m not assuming you are, but you might be.
Regardless. I am simply pointing out that perhaps you receive a great deal of resistance because of your manner, you are after all talking to people with feelings and emotions, only sating your opinions without consideration of how it makes others feel will result in people focussing on how what you say makes them feel, rather than the content of what you have said. This is just human nature, and we are complex human beings with feelings and emotions which usually dominates the mind. Why do you think sales people with charisma and charm can sell us so many things we don’t need?! 
I agree that what you have said about Islam and Christianity is true, and to answer your question, YES, I do think we should brush under the carpet! I grew up during apartheid in South Africa, should we forget how black and Indian people were treated, NO not at all, should we brush it under the carpet, YES, because that is how we move forward together, fuelling the anger and blame over apartheid has recently lead to additional deaths…is this the solution you are after, revenge?
I also agree that all religions are fundamentally different, and one cannot pick and choose the parts you agree or disagree with based on new age fashion, or being accepted by society (*referring to people of religious domination). But we can all come together in peace, tolerance, and compassion regardless of our differences. Mother Teresa, the Dalai Lama, and Ghandi have proven this possible, they were/ are still followers of their religion but they did/ do not focus on war, hate, blame and difference.